Yes... but

How many times in your life have you said "yes, but"? 

 You see something you like but you instantly talk yourself out of it.  It might be simply something you want to purchase or maybe its something you'd like to do.  OR, maybe its an opportunity.  And right after the comment you come up with a list of every excuse or reason under the sun to not buy it, not do it, or not go for it!  Right?  Been there?  I know I have and unless it is a purchase that does not fit my finances at that time, I ALWAYS end up regretting the "but"! 

The thing is, there are times when talking ourselves down is a good thing.  If it is going to wreck our finances or harm us... talking ourselves out of it is a good thing.  However, if it is an opportunity and you are saying "but" due to a previous failure, a friends opinion, or other excuses you have going on in your mind...... that little word is a THIEF! 

Yep, you read right.... it robs you of the very opportunity that could change your life and in a very good way!  Is every opportunity a good one?  Of course not but closing your mind to all of them because of a few bad apples is one of the worst things you can possibly do. 

Take time to check things out.  Try to do so with an open mind.  Imagine the possibilities instead of instantly assuming the worst.  You just might find that something is out here just waiting for you that will change your life in a good way or simply add some joy into your life.  You won't know if you allow "but" to stand in your way! 

My life changed in a big way when I finally learned to look a little bit deeper and do so without the distraction of everyone else.  YOU have all that you need to make good choices!  Trust yourself a little! 

Overdue!

I'm in the process of fine tuning and realize I have so many things over due!  Can any of you relate?  This blog is one of them.  Neglected and gathering dust.  Yes, I am guilty of not doing the upkeep on this one!  Those of you that have followed me will note I've made a big change over the past year!  It wasn't a change I was looking for but when I found out about this....... it was like every single thing I've done was simply the training ground for what I'm supposed to do for the long term.  So yes folks, you'll notice I am building with a new company, a company that has all of my heart.  This time, its more about the mission and this time....... I have a plan I can truly work with in a way that will massively help those that are ready to come with me! 

Its funny, we all start out with great intentions but then life sometimes gets in the way and all of sudden a few things become dust collectors.  And then, the cleaning process begins!  But, where do you begin?  Do you throw it out?  Do you clean it up and freshen it?  Hmmm... I suppose that answer will be different for each person but for me....... I'm cleaning it up and refreshing it!  

My crazy mind just won't let this one die because as I watch people on social media, I realize that this blog is one that needs to stay.  This blog is one I need to get my tail in gear on and keep up.  This blog........ needs to help someone.  Not sure if that is you or maybe just writing it will help me but either way, I think a benefit is here.

I'm not one to accept failure as a bad thing.  The truth is, failure is actually one of the best teachers we will ever have.  I've had a few failures in my life and at the time it was definitely NOT enjoyable but the aftermath brought me many lessons which are valuable beyond words.  You see those lessons helped me reach success.  Those lessons helped me learn and grow.  And I consider that a HUGE success!  

There is one failure that I do recognize and that is when one fails to learn from their experiences or when one fails to try again.  That my friends a huge failure and one I truly hope you never experience.  I've never failed to stand back up and try again but I know many have.  I will simply remind you if your dream was worth dreaming.... its worth trying again!  Just take the lessons learned forward and go for it!

Yes, the years have taught me so much.  I'm grateful for that!  The years led me to where I am today so even the losses are something I love.  I'm finally at the point in my life that I'm building my last team, my legacy so to speak.  It feels good!  I'm excited about it and of course I'm using all of the lessons learned from the past to make this last venture, my best!  

Stay tuned!  I'm about to reveal all of the little secrets I've learned over the years and maybe, just maybe you'll walk away with a lesson or two that will serve you well!  

Cheers my friends!  Life is good!